My husband and I were married in October of 2009. In January I found some emails from women he had met from on craigslist personal ads and emails back and forth to russian brides.All of this happened after we were married. I confronted him and he "deleted" his hotmail account and then created a new one.

Well I let it go for a while and figured it wasn't anything. I went out of town in June and we were fighting while I was gone. I came home and was curious if he had been looking at those sites again and so I looked in his browser history. I snooped and I don't care if any of you care so don't mention it.

I found tons of craigslist NSA ads and even one that he posted in M4M... I read it and it was very gross. He claimed somebody hacked into the computer and did it. I knew better because I've worked with computers for a while.

For a month he kept saying how he wasn't lying and I mean really convinced me... almost. I couldn't figure it out. Then the other day he admitted to it. I'm extremely pissed and confused about what to think . He claims that the post was a passive aggressive attack at me that I was never supposed to find. I don't get it.

I have no idea what to think about the situation. It's weird and I'm at a loss.
Advice?